HRT – One size does not fit all

A few months ago I started feeling really on edge. Like I couldn’t cope. My toddler was pushing all my buttons and I felt like I used to be able to stay pretty calm about it (obviously not all the time but mostly). But I was starting to feel like I was going to explode…

Decisions, decisions, decisions

I’ve read a few articles recently about where to go if you’re considering egg donation: stay in the UK or go abroad. As I’ve mentioned before, we took the option of using a clinic in Spain to find our donor and have the treatment and only have hugely positive things to say about that decision.…

Sharing is caring

Today I went to a Menopause Workshop at work. (The exciting life I lead heh). But I’d heard good things about it, and I think sometimes I’ve brushed over my menopause, as the main focus since that diagnosis has been to get pregnant, and then of course, my wonderful little girl once she arrived. And…

Coming out (in a way)

We’ve been talking a lot recently about trying a second round of fertility treatment with our frozen embryos and I’ve been feeling more and more uncomfortable with our decision to keep this to ourselves. Maybe uncomfortable’s not the word..... if you’ve read some of my other blogs you’ll know that I have always been torn…

Is egg donation still a taboo?

Today I’ve been thinking a lot about egg donation and wondering if it is still a taboo subject? And I think it is. Firstly, here’s me and Mr M that are so happy with the process, and now wouldn’t change it if it meant not having our daughter in our lives, yet we still haven’t…

It’s good to talk

When you're considering egg donation, you have to have a couples counselling session with an egg donation specialist to make sure you are aware of everything that goes with having a baby in that way, and that the counsellor thinks you are ok to go ahead. When I got my diagnosis, I called the counsellor…

If only women knew

I’ve been thinking today how you take your fertility for granted when you’re younger. You never think you might not be able to have children if you should want to (unless something awful happens medically of course), and worry more about getting pregnant than not being able to get pregnant. But knowing what I know…